I’ll be referring almost exclusively to a free booklet written by the National Institute on Aging working with the National Institutes of Health called: Talking With Your Doctor. (U.S. Department of Health and Human Services, NIH Publication No. 05-3452 August 2005 (Reprinted April 2010)
http://www.nia.nih.gov/health/publication/talking-your-doctor-guide-older-people
Consult reference sources
“The Directory of Physicians in the United States and the Official American Board of Medical Specialties Directory of Board Certified Medical Specialists are available at many libraries. These books don’t recommend individual doctors but they do provide a list of doctors you may want to consider. MedlinePlus, a website from the National Library of Medicine, has a comprehensive list of directories (www.nlm.nih.gov/medlineplus/directories.html) which may also be helpful. There are plenty of other Internet resources too—for example, you can find doctors through the American Medical Association’s website at www.ama-assn.org (click on “Doctor Finder”). For a list of doctors who participate in Medicare, visit www.medicare.gov (click on “Search Tools” then “Find a Doctor”). WebMD also provides a list of doctors at www.webmd.com (click on “Doctors”). Don’t forget to call your local or State medical society to check if complaints have been filed against any of the doctors you are considering.” Pg. 4
Learn more about the doctors you are considering
Set up an appointment to meet and talk with the doctor you are considering and ask the following questions (you may think of more that are important to you).
- Do you have many older patients?
- How do you feel about involving my family in care decisions?
- Can I call or email you or your staff when I have questions?
- Do you charge for telephone or email time?
- What are your thoughts about complementary or alternative treatments?
When making a decision about which doctor to choose, you might want to ask yourself questions like:
- Did the doctor give me a chance to ask questions?
- Was the doctor really listening to me?
- Could I understand what the doctor was saying? Was I comfortable asking him or her to say it again?
Make the choice
Once you choose your doctor remember to bring your medical records or make arrangements with your prior doctor to have them sent. You will need to sign a release of records form with them (make sure you bring your new doctor’s contact information).
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